I could go down on you" or "Would you touch it my penis " or "Can we have sex tonight" that is greeted with a negative response. Doing it just to make you happy is going to cause resentment down the line. Check into antidepressants; there's a bunch that are notorious for the negative sexual side effects. I agree that they should talk about it. This can be anything from a hobby to taking a class to going out for lunch. Where else are you getting feelings of union and ecstasy in your life in general?
This was me, a couple of years ago. But there are a lot of ways this could be playing out. And as they say, the more sex you have, the more you want sex. Sources of arousal can vary greatly from person to person. This can be anything from a hobby to taking a class to going out for lunch. It may feel a little forced or even unromantic, but putting sex before your work emails or your Netflix queue speaks volumes. Have you spoken to her about this in a calm, reasonable way while avoiding phrases like, "I'm trapped in this relationship! Nothing is less sexy than desperation. She has no incentive to change other than that she cares about your feelings and needs. Testosterone is the hormone most closely associated with male sex drive. If your question is genuinely 'how can I reduce my sex drive' and not the subtext I'm responding to here, the answer is 'you can jerk off a lot. This is not a joke comment by the way, I'm quite serious. How do the two of you experience intimacy with and express deep fondness for eachother in non-physical ways? Maybe she's not feeling up to it due to other stress. If you've already given up hope of the situation improving, why aren't you moving on? Now are you really going to break up with her? So I would in fact find the suggestion revolting, as if someone brought me a steak half an hour after Thanksgiving dinner. So, that's the part to focus on and be concerned about. Assuming for now you actually do have a healthy, loving relationship outside the bedroom, ask yourself some more questions. Decreased sex drive is one of the most common side effects of the beta-blockers he's been taking. Take a Step Back Libido is a mysterious beast, and sometimes, the more you try to chase it, the more difficult it gets to track. Could it be that she thinks of sex as something that deserves the time and energy to make it great, and then when you are flippant about it, or when you treat it as just a means to get rid of some pressure as opposed to something worthy of savoring, it confuses and frustrates her? Your doctor may be able to suggest an alternative. It was also used at one time to cure meats. Ask yourself these questions - really ask them.
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How to lower sex drive/libido
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